Have you ever stumbled upon those videos of matchmakers specializing in international matchmaking, helping men from the West connect with women from Eastern Europe—specifically Ukraine—and wondered how that even happens? I mean, seriously, how does a man go from being single in the West, with access to Western women, to being in a relationship with someone younger, hotter, and frankly, way out of his league by Western standards?

Well, today, I want to pull back the curtain and share exactly how it works in our company, Heart Rocket. I’m Luba, and alongside Stryker, I’ve been helping men like you form meaningful, lasting relationships with Eastern European women for years. Let me walk you through the process, step by step.

Step 1: The Strategy Call
The first thing every man must do is book a strategy call with us. Now, I know what you’re thinking—“Ugh, a sales pitch.” But no, that’s not what this is. It’s not about selling you something; it’s about us understanding who you are, what you want, and whether we can actually help you.

We dive deep into your expectations, vision for a relationship, and even your lifestyle. Sometimes, men come to us unsure if their goals are even realistic. Let me be clear: there’s nothing wrong with having high standards. Many of our clients are just lacking confidence or experience in relationships, and that’s okay.

But here’s the thing—if we feel you’re not ready yet, we’ll tell you. We’ll give you actionable advice on what to improve (maybe it’s your health, your confidence, or your living situation), and when you come back ready, we’ll be here. We’ve had guys return a year or two later, transformed and ready to find love.

Step 2: Getting Started
Once we’ve had the call and both sides agree to move forward, we start building your profile. This isn’t just uploading some selfies and calling it a day. No, no. We help you with professional photos, crafting the right bio, and presenting yourself in the best possible light.

At the same time, we introduce you to our Ascend program—our pride and joy! This is a series of online courses designed to prepare you mentally and emotionally for the international matchmaking journey ahead. It’s like a crash course in understanding women, avoiding common mistakes, and learning how to build a strong foundation for a relationship. Think of it as your ultimate guidebook to dating success.

Step 3: Accessing the Database
Once your profile is ready, you gain access to our system, where you can browse profiles of amazing Eastern European women. Think of it as a catalog—but much more curated. You’ll select the women you’re interested in, and we’ll guide you from there.

Some men hesitate here, worried about seeming “shallow” by selecting too many women. Please don’t! The more women you’re interested in, the better we can tailor your experience.

Step 4: Matchmaking Begins
Here’s where the magic happens. Once you’ve chosen your favorites, I go through your list and provide my feedback. Maybe there’s someone on your list I know won’t be a good fit based on your lifestyle or her preferences. Or maybe I’ll suggest someone you didn’t notice—trust me, this is where my intuition really shines.

For example, I once convinced a client to meet a woman he hadn’t considered. He was skeptical, but afterward, he said, “Luba, how did you know?!” It’s like being a doctor for love—I just know what works!

Step 5: The Dates
Now it’s time for virtual dates, usually over Zoom. These are short, focused conversations—under an hour—to keep the energy fresh and engaging. Before the date, we provide a detailed guide on how to start, maintain, and end the conversation successfully.

We encourage you to date multiple women simultaneously. Why? Because comparison helps you understand who’s genuinely invested in you. You’ll notice differences in how they communicate, their enthusiasm, and how well your personalities align.

As you narrow down your choices, the process becomes clearer. And don’t worry, we’re with you every step of the way, providing feedback and helping you decide who to pursue further.

Step 6: Meeting in Person
When you’ve found a few women you connect with, it’s time to meet them in person. This is such an exciting step! Most of our clients meet their matches in neutral locations like Poland or Germany. (Many of our women are already outside Ukraine due to the current situation.)

We usually recommend a 4-5 day trip. Why? Because quality over quantity is key. A few well-planned, meaningful days are much more effective than a drawn-out, unproductive visit.

During this trip, you’ll get to know each other on a deeper level. Maybe you meet one woman and decide she’s the one, or perhaps you meet two and need more time to decide. Either way, the in-person connection is a game-changer.

Step 7: Building the Relationship
After the trip, if things went well, you’ll continue the relationship remotely while planning your next steps—whether that’s another visit or starting the process for her to move to your country.

We don’t just leave you at this stage. In fact, this is where our real work begins. We support you through the challenges of long-distance communication, cultural differences, and even the logistics of visas and relocation.

Why This Works
You might be wondering, “Why should I trust this process?” Because it’s designed to find the best match for you—not just anyone, but the right one.

We’re the only matchmaking company that actively encourages dating multiple women and offers this level of hands-on support. Other services might just send you on a trip and wish you luck. Not us.

We’re here to guide you, challenge you, and ensure you’re putting in the effort needed to achieve your relationship goals.

Ready to Start?
If you’ve been searching for something real—something different from what you’ve experienced in the West—this might be your chance. Book a strategy call today, and let’s start your journey to finding love.

You deserve happiness, and we’re here to help you find it. Let’s make it happen!